"Why Do You Do This?" Sunday, January 26. 2014.

“Why do you do this?”

“Do what?”

“This.”

“You mean help out with confirmation?”

“Yeah. Like school hours, community service or something?”

“Oh. No, not for hours.”

“You do this just for fun?”

“Well sure. And because I love Jesus. And I hope that you can learn to love Him too.”

“Oh..”

Though a mere 30 second conversation,

I’ve been thinking about it all week.

A couple of things have come to mind.

First, when did we become a generation who does things only for something?

What’s in it for me?

Will the reward be greater than the effort that I put in?

Guilty.

Guilty as charged.

So very often I contemplate the pros and cons.

Pros- what’s in it for me?

Cons- what’s it gonna cost me?

I’m so glad that Jesus is just so much better than me.

What would have happened if He used this logic?

If He had been a selfish person?

We would not have the gift of eternal life.

What might I be missing when I make selfish choices?

What if I just did things for His glory

instead of taking a moment to think about the sleep I’d be losing?

And second,

why on earth do people need to question my motives?

Because I fail at being a good Christian.

If I were a good Christian,

then it would be clear that my motive would be Christ.

But that’s not clear. 
Something needs to change.

I wish that that teen did not need to ask that question.

I wish that that teen knew that I was there for the glory of the Lord.

But they didn’t.

I need to be a better Christian.

We all have an ultimate goal.

Hopefully it’s heaven.

That’s my goal.

All my actions should reflect that goal.

Grocery shopping, running, and confirmation small group included.

My goal here is

to find out how to live in a way 
that constantly reflects Christ and His love for humanity.

I’m going to venture to say that you may be interested in a similar goal?

Post New Year’s resolution?

Let’s go live in reflection of Christ and His great unending love.  

MERRY CHRISTMAS! December 25, 2013.

Merry Christmas!

Christ has been born.

Born to save the world from death.

Born into a wooden cradle that would,

with the completion of His mission,

become the wood of the cross.

I pray that this Advent season has been a time of preparation for you.

A time of preparing your heart for the coming of Christ.

Know though, that this preparation is not over.

We are still watching and waiting expectantly

for the coming of Christ again.

Let us pray that we may always be preparing our hearts for Him.

Let us pray that we may complete the mission He has set before us 

in a way most pleasing to Him.

This birth of this Child is the only reason we have hope for life eternal.

His coming destroyed death and gave us hope for life.

Let us praise Him!

Let us adore Him!

I thank you immensely for reading along this Advent.

It is incredibly humbling.

I hope that each one of you has a very blessed Christmas.

Merry Christmas!

Christmas Eve. Advent Day 24. December 24, 2013.

Christmas Eve.

The eve of the birth of the Baby Jesus.

The eve of one of the most celebrated days of the year.

But, yet, we miss the point.

Amid the cookies

and ham,

present wrapping,

and cleaning,

family quarrels,

and decorating,

we forget.

We always blame those who make Christmas a secular holiday.

They don’t recognize Jesus’ presence and birth

but I go to church, therefore,

I understand the true meaning of Christmas.

No.

Just no.

It can’t always be “them”.

What about us?

What about me?

When do I fail?

When am I wrong?

Just because I go to church on Christmas Eve

doesn’t mean I make the holiday any less secular than the rest of the world.

I realize that I don’t take the time to truly ponder Christmas 

and its true meaning.

Cliché as it is,

it isn’t all about the cookies,

ham,

gifts,

trees,

ornaments,

lights,

and hot drinks.

It’s obviously about the gift of the Christ Child.

But how many of us truly understand the magnitude of that gift?

I don’t.

This gift.

The Christ Child is the most

undeserved,

life-saving, 

underappreciated,

rewarding,

challenging,

joyful,

forgotten,

humbling,

hopeful,

and love-driven gift.

EVER.

I can’t even begin to comprehend.

But I don’t take the time to either.

Let’s make one last goal for this season.

Together.

Let’s make it a goal today to sit,

even just for 5 minutes,

block everything else out,

and just think about the gift of the Christ Child.

Let us prepare our hearts.

Let us ready the way for Him.

Let us push aside all the extras

and just focus on the coming of the Christ Child

and what that means in your own life.

Maybe, just maybe,

we will receive the best gift of all this Christmas,

understanding the true meaning of Christmas. 

Wisdom from Phil Robertson. Advent Day 23. December 23, 2013.

Our culture has accepted two huge lies.

The first is that if you disagree with someone’s lifestyle, you must fear or hate them.The second is that to love someone means you agree with everything they believe or do. Both are nonsense. You don’t have to compromise your convictions to be compassionate.

-Phil Robertson

Spot.

On.

I love when the greatest bouts of wisdom come from the most unassuming people.

Our culture has decided that if we disagree with someone and their lifestyle of sin,

we must do away with them.

We can’t interact with them.

We should even start up petitions and hold protests

to show our disdain and disapproval of their lifestyle.

Whatever happened to conversation?

Just talking about the situation.

Saying,

“Here is what I see. That doesn’t quite match the view of the Church. Could we talk about it?”

But no.

That’s way too offensive.

That’s getting too deep into a relationship.

That’s trespassing personal boundaries.

Not acceptable.

How are we ever supposed to become better people

if we won’t allow for any criticism or insight from anyone else?

Talking is too much?

It’s too scary?

What about living a lifestyle that speaks a million words?

What about mirroring your own life after the Church’s teachings?

Actions speak.

Live a life that speaks well.

On the flip side,

who said that to love you must agree with everything that person stands for?

We are such wimps.

We have become lukewarm.

Absolutely nothing wrong with being friends with someone

who lives a lifestyle of sin you don’t agree with.

In fact, go for it, you’re transcending the whole phobia thing.

But, the thing is, to love is to will the good of another,

not to condone and agree with all they do.

You can be friends and not agree with their lifestyle of sin.

You can love them without condoning the way they live.

You can have conversations without pointing a finger at them.

You can love them by challenging them; by not allowing them to settle.

If our ultimate goal is heaven then we must do some work to get there.

I can do some work myself,

but I also need the help of others.

I need other to point out my failings and sinful choices.

I need someone to love me in a way that challenges me,

not that bubble wraps me.

I think we all do.

Be that person for someone else.

Love, the right way.

“You don’t have to compromise your convictions to be compassionate.”

Job's Simple Faith. Advent Day 22. December 22, 2013.

I love Job.

This blog started off with a post comparing

Job’s choice of words and his wife’s choice of words.

In this story,

Job obviously chose the better part,

the more pleasing words.

I’ve wondered though,

what exactly about Job’s words makes them a much better choice?

Obviously the content,

but what is behind them?

What are they made up of?

Where do they have their root?

Faith.

No doubt.

But a certain kind.

Faith like a child.

Job’s faith was simple.

His words to God were simple.

He was all very logical.

Not complex logical.

Just plan, simple, “duh”, logic.

I guess it’s similar to asking an older child,

“What is 2+2?”

You should get the answer, “4”

but you might get a snarky response

as if the answer should have been obvious.

Job responded like that, I think.

Maybe he left out the snarkiness but

he spoke his words as though they were obvious. 

Upon everything being taken away from him Job responded,

“The Lords gives and the Lord takes. Blessed be the name of the Lord.” (Job 1:21).

From the get-go (literally, chapter 1),

Job was praising God for his horrible situation. 

But more than just praising,

Job just stated the obvious.

He gives.

He takes.

We take the good.

Who are we to not take the bad as well?

Like a little kid.

Faith.

Faith like a child.

We make things too complex.

We try and find the meaning behind everything.

We try to pin down the exact plan God has set for us.

We try to analyze why God does what He does.

We look for explanations for experiences God puts us through.

When really,

all we need is some faith.

Faith like a child.

It doesn’t require

thought processes,

or diagrams,

or math equations,

or timelines.

It is just constantly,

wholly,

trusting.

Faith like a child.  

God Knows. Advent Day 21. December 21, 2013.

God knows.

He knows your heart.

He knows every

beat,

crack,

crevice,

irregularity,

and longing.

I forget this though,

all too often.

I feel like I have to explain everything to Him.

Or that I have to hide things.

Or that He won’t understand.

I take for granted the fact that He knows.

I put up these walls.

Those facades?

I don’t use them just with people,

with Him too.

It’s just easier most of the time

to dance around the truth,

to pretty-up the not-so-pretty,

to pretend as though everything is fine.

I’ve come to realize though,

that it really does no good.

There is no benefit to

facades

and walls

and being fake

and hiding things.

I’ve also come to realize though,

that being real is much harder.

But there is great benefit to it.

If we want to

improve our lives,

be better Christians,

seek out Christ,

check off our goals,

fulfill our missions,

and be the person Christ is calling us to be,

we have to be real with Him.

No sense in hiding it.

He knows it all.

Rather than trying to dance around the truth

with petty little lies

and false fantasies,

just skip that.

Just cut right to the heart of it all.

Right to the center.

Right to the core.

Right to the place that may cause some pain.

Right to the place where He can offer you

comfort and redemption,

guidance and friendship,

truth and honesty.

Just lay it down.

Offer it up to Him.

He already knows it all.   

The Heart Knows. Advent Day 20. December 20, 2013.

The heart knows its own bitterness.

Proverbs 14:10

When I read this verse I couldn’t help but think about my own bitterness.

Of course I am familiar with some of it.

But I am also well aware that there is way more bitterness within than I care to admit.

I think this idea of bitterness encompasses more than just bitterness but rather,

all of our anger,

all of our sins,

and all of our failings.

I may put up a front,

but the heart knows.

It’s kind of like dieting with a friend and

sneaking some cookies without them seeing.

Your friend may never know that you cheated on your diet,

but your body will.

An interesting connection between the body and the heart is this-

neither lie.

I might lie about what I eat;

my body won’t.

I might lie about my bitterness;

my heart won’t.

Whether it’s a cookie or a sin,

you will be ratted out.

I’ve learned this the hard way (both examples!)

But through those mistakes,

I have learned how to make this apparent conflict a bit easier.

I haven’t learned perfection,

but I am working on progress.  

I’ve learned that the more the heart is in sync

with the mind

and our body

and our actions,

the less conflict and contradiction there will be.

The more we are willing to admit what the heart already knows,

the more we can make progress on our missions

and become better Christians.

The longer we deny the fact that

the heart truly knows our bitterness,

the bigger the web of lies that we become entangled in.

The truth might initially seem harder

than ignoring what the heart truly knows.

But in the long run,

admitting the truth,

no matter how hard it may be,

will result in a better outcome.

What does your heart know

that you are trying to suppress?

What is the hard, cold truth

that is waiting to set you free?

What does YOUR heart know?